How to Win a Man’s Heart
Men are usually very complicated at times. Most women assume that men are simple creatures, that are it’s going to be easy to understand their needs and emotions.
There are many things going on deep inside and you can’t overlook the kind of depth a man is capable of if you’re thinking of falling in love with one.
It’s good to know what makes a man tick so that you can use that to your advantage and try to connect with him.
What matters is making your man feel happy, through simple and major gestures that you may practice in your daily lives. You should be able to get to him in a way no one else can
But how do you achieve this when you don’t speak the same emotional language as men? Here are some tips to help you handle this:
- Feed him
Sounds very cliché but trust me it’s the truth. You will definitely go far with him if you know how to feed him, since it gives him the idea that you know how to take care of him, and he can rely on you.
- Satisfy him in the bedroom
Sexual satisfaction is key in any relationship. It shouldn’t be the foundation on which the relationship is built, but it can improve intimacy. Sex is a good way to express your love with one another
- Make him miss you at times
Limit your availability to him. Show him that you don’t always have to rely on him for everything. Too much attention will suffocate him, will probably drive him away
- Give him a nice scalp massage
Very relaxing and simple to give, but also very intimate and nice way to spend some time together without having sex
- Get to know his parents
This is key especially if he is a family oriented person. Treat his parents with love and respect. This creates a feeling that people who are important to him are also important to you
- Assist with household chores
Show him how responsible you are and reliable when it comes to long term relationships. It shows that you’re independent enough to handle yourself without his help, and he will appreciate you more
- Treat his nieces and nephews right
This will affect him in two ways. One, you’re still stressing that important people in his life are important to you as well and two, you’re letting him know your great with kids and that you would be a wonderful mum to your future kids.
- Maintain Class when out in Public
Truth is, he should care what others think about you, however, it would make him happy whenever you try to be the woman he can be proud of. Carry yourself in a way that he wouldn’t think twice about taking you out on a date or present you to his parents.
- Try to align your interests with his
No need to love everything he is into, but give him a chance to bond and connect over some of his passions. he is definitely going to get more hooked to you.
- Give him his freedom
Falling in love and getting into a relationship should cut off your freedoms. If you show him the willingness to set him free, that will make him very happy.
- Flirt with him
Finally, flirt with him. Make him feel you need him. Let him feel the attraction and let him know as well you are ready to put yourself out there for him
Honestly, this post seems a bit outdated. Reducing men to simple needs like food and sex feels overly simplistic. Relationships should be about deeper communication, not just meeting basic requirements.
This article is quite informative. It raises valid points about understanding men’s needs and expectations in a relationship. I particularly liked the suggestion about getting to know his family—it really shows commitment!
Honestly, this article oversimplifies men in relationships. It’s not just about feeding them or giving massages; there’s so much more involved. Relationships require deep communication, not just these surface-level suggestions.
Is this really what relationships have come down to? Scalp massages and cooking? I think we need to focus on genuine connection instead of these stereotypical expectations that limit us.
“Satisfy him in the bedroom” as a tip is both cringy and reductive. Sure, intimacy matters, but it’s just one aspect of a relationship that requires trust and emotional connection too.
While I appreciate the effort in this post, it seems to promote outdated gender stereotypes. Men and women are complex individuals; reducing emotional connection to chores and meals feels disingenuous. Let’s have deeper conversations instead!
This article provides some intriguing insights into male psychology. The emphasis on emotional language differences is spot on. It’s essential to understand how men communicate their feelings, which can often be non-verbal.
I get that the author means well, but suggesting that women should flirt and feed men feels kind of patronizing. Shouldn’t relationships be more about mutual respect rather than catering to someone’s whims?
“Make him miss you” sounds manipulative at best! If someone loves you, they should want to spend time with you without games or tactics involved. Just be yourself and let love grow naturally!