Figure out the following things before finding true love
- Focus on building a good relationship with yourself rather than focusing on finding a partner.
You must have a great relationship with yourself first if you want anything to work out in life. This is what I deal with in my career because if you are positive in life you pave way for happiness, opportunities and long-lasting joy.
Self-reflect yourself. How do you treat yourself? How do you communicate with yourself?
- Have faith instead of anxiety
Individuals who have found love always believed they will regardless of undergoing anxiety. They trusted in divine timing.
You create your reality through thoughts, so in any case, you have negative thoughts, you are essentially praying for what you don’t want. Think positively and expect good things in life.
- Trust that you are worthy of love
This something that limits my clients. Fear of not being worthy of love. It is a way in which people lose hope in love. If you can’t trust that you deserve to be loved, why would someone else think you are? You have to do away with this belief and stop having negative thoughts about yourself if you want to find true love.
- Appreciate the love that is given to you
The act of receiving is more vulnerable than the person giving. It is a sign that you appreciate their love and this makes you vulnerable.
- Do away with what you need to have to attract your ideal partner
Be you, you don’t have to please your ideal partner. You will meet someone who will love you just the way you are. So loosen up and believe that the universe will send you’re your soul mate.
- Give the benefit of doubt to people
Are you interpreting everything as an offense or as a red flag? Believe that someone is good even if they have wronged you. If you do this, you’ll be more free and joyful. Let not your past encounters determine your future.
- Communicate effectively and honestly
You can’t just choose who to talk to well and bad to others. Either you are an individual who speaks with integrity or you are a silent communicator. The good thing is you can improve well on your communication skills.
The advice given here seems sound but neglects some realities of life. Not everyone has the luxury to focus solely on themselves; sometimes survival takes precedence over self-love.
“You create your reality through thoughts”? Really? If only thinking positively could fix all problems! This sounds like the kind of advice you’d find in a fortune cookie rather than practical life guidance.
@Gordon Walsh, while I see your point, isn’t there some truth in believing we shape our experiences? A positive mindset can indeed foster resilience and open doors.
@George Lee Haha yes! It’s almost cliché at this point but still very valid!
I found this article quite informative! The emphasis on effective communication really resonated with me because it’s true—good relationships start with honest dialogue.
@Hill Jessica Absolutely! It’s amazing how clarity in communication can prevent so many misunderstandings.
While I understand the intention behind this post, it feels overly simplistic. Relationships are complex and not everyone can just ‘trust the universe.’ Life doesn’t always work out based on positive thinking alone.
@Abigail Moore haha that’s one way to look at it! But hey, even fish need to learn their environment!
‘Trust that you are worthy of love’? Sounds easy enough, but what about those of us who struggle with self-esteem? This article feels like it’s missing the real struggles many face daily.
@Shaw Amelia, I get where you’re coming from but maybe that’s precisely why we need to shift our mindset! Acknowledging our worth might be tough but it’s crucial.
This is a refreshing take! Too often, we rush into relationships without understanding ourselves first. Self-reflection is the key to finding true happiness in love.