Reigniting Your Relationship
People are always asking how they can reignite their relationships. The thing about love is that it is passionate, and it brings up arousal and makes you feel excited. The problem is that this usually ends in about a year and a half.
It doesn’t mean that love goes completely away, it just means that it begins to decline because of regular things happening in life.
The truth is, our body cannot handle passionate love to stay strong forever but it can handle love being happy and perky.
There are some ways that you can make your relationship shine. Here are a few ways:
Find New Activities
If you want your relationship to spark, you need to act like you did when you first got together. One way is to find activities that you and your partner want to try together. This can help you feel like you did at the beginning of your relationship when you would try new things.
Try some things like mountain climbing or ice skating.
Be Mysterious
Mystery is another way to ignite your relationship. Surprise your partner with a trip or with tickets to their favorite show. Even cooking their favorite dinner can go a long way.
Increase the Arousal
Try to find ways to increase the arousal. Do things like watching scary movies together to perk up the passion in the relationship.
Working out together can also increase the adrenaline and make things more arousing.
Vacation
Let the two of you take a small vacation. Do this when there is a lot of pressure in your home. You do not have to spend a lot of money to do this, just take time away from home and spend it together.
Touching
Touching increases the arousal in relationships. Touch each other more often like holding hands or kissing.
Have Fun
Find time to play together and to laugh. Couples can play by playing in the snow, playing board games or just having fun.
When you think of a date night, think of something that you can do that will be fun and increase the laughter in your relationship.
Honestly, this all sounds great until life gets in the way. Trying new things is nice, but what happens when you’re just too tired after work? Reality check needed here!
‘Be mysterious’? Really? How about just being honest with each other instead? This article suggests playing games when real intimacy is what most relationships need. Stop pretending, folks; authenticity wins!
While I appreciate the intention behind the article, it oversimplifies love and relationships. Not all couples can just ‘find new activities’ to reignite their passion. Relationships require deeper understanding and communication.
While I understand the intent behind this article, it seems overly simplistic. Relationships are complex and cannot be fixed by just going on vacations or trying new activities. There’s more to it than that.
I have to disagree with some of these points. Increasing arousal through scary movies? Sounds like a cheap thrill rather than a genuine connection. Relationships need more than adrenaline—like trust and respect!
This article highlights some intriguing methods for maintaining passion in relationships, but I think it lacks depth. Love evolves, and it’s not solely about excitement; emotional intimacy is equally important.
‘Touching increases arousal’? Groundbreaking revelation there! It’s astonishing how common sense can be portrayed as profound wisdom. Relationships are complex; this article makes them sound so trivial and easy.
@James32 made a good point about keeping the spark alive. It’s refreshing to see suggestions like cooking favorite meals and playing games together—those are truly meaningful moments!
‘Touching increases arousal’? Seriously? Are we in kindergarten? This advice seems so basic, yet people act like it’s groundbreaking. Relationships need real work, not just fun activities.
This post is informative but feels a bit cliché. Sure, trying new things is important, but what if the couple has already exhausted all options? Love isn’t just about activities; it requires emotional work too.
I think vacations are vital for couples to reconnect; however, they don’t replace open communication about real issues in the relationship.