6 Quirky Ways You Know You’ve Met your Life Partner
We all desire to end up with our “perfect” partner. But how do we know when that right for us person enters our lives? There will never be a flashing sign that reads “pick me,” but a trained eye can spot telling clues. We have complied six unique ways you know you found true love.
- You feel emotionally grounded
You aren’t concerned about drama or when one of you should contact the other. You don’t worry that they will suddenly cancel a date or ghost you. A good partner for you is one that provides you stability and consistency.
- You fight fair
No one likes to admit it, but all healthy couples fight. Fair fights allow you both to communication feelings, concerns and needs without feeling like a bomb will suddenly go off. Use these disagreements as opportunity to create mutual beneficial solutions and learn what aspects contributed to this misunderstand to lessen the impact in the future.
- Your heart flutters
You get butterflies and can get flustered when they are around. This is caused by oxytocin being released in your brain, which in turn makes you crave being around them more. Life partners feel a wonderous rush when they are near each other and use that rush to continue strengthening their bond.
- You may want to push them away at first
This is because many people are used to dating the wrong type of person for them. Therefore, when a “good” partner comes around the healthiness can feel so foreign they want to run. Be careful to understand why you might not feel an immediate connection, or if you do, be bothered by it. You might discover you need to heal some old wounds.
- You like time apart
It’s okay not to want to spend every waking moment together. A healthy relationship is dependent on two healthy individuals. This means you both can have your own set of friends, passions, interests, and thoughts. Having time away from each other can create some wonderful stories to share during your next date night!
- You take an interest in them
To be invested in a relationship you must be invested in the person. This means being involved in their day-to-day and being curious about people or things that matter to them. Asking about someone’s day shows that you genuinely care about them and want to know how you can be an asset to them. This is clear sign of a healthy relationship.
When you meet your perfect partner, you might not immediate sense it. Depending on your dating history you might be scared by their wonderful attributes. But notice and honor your instincts and feelings, both when you are with them and when you are apart. If you spot the majority of these six signs, then you will know you found true love!
‘You feel emotionally grounded’—what does that even mean? Can someone explain this in simple terms? Relationships are complex, and this article makes it sound like there’s a checklist to follow.
I find it quite amusing how the article mentions ‘butterflies.’ Really? Are we still in high school? True love involves a lot more than just feelings; it’s about commitment and shared goals.
‘Fighting fair’ sounds great in theory, but let’s be honest: most couples don’t even know how to communicate effectively during disagreements. This section feels overly optimistic and doesn’t reflect reality for many.
This article provides some insightful perspectives on love! The idea that you might push a good partner away because of past experiences is something many overlook. It’s important to recognize and heal those wounds.
While I see the points made, I think the article is oversimplifying relationships. Life isn’t always about finding ‘perfect’ partners, and real love is often messy and complicated. This feels too idealistic.
‘You like time apart?’ Haha, that’s rich! If I wanted time alone, I’d stay single! Relationships are all about togetherness… or at least that’s what my grandma always told me!